Anna Jarvis Had It Right

Think Mother’s Day has become too commercial? Think the greeting card companies control too much? Think the florists and chocolatiers have become more important than the real meaning of the day?

The founder of the modern Mother’s Day agreed with you.

annajarvisI’ve previously blogged about the first Mother’s Day, and how it was conceived as a day to advocate for peace.

A generation later, the Mother’s Day we celebrate was founded by a good Methodist woman named Anna Jarvis. However, Jarvis saw the day as far more than a commercial holiday. And years after she’d achieved her dream of a day to honor all Mothers, she got the sense that she’d created a commercialistic Frankenstein.

 

In a 1924 news story, she decried what her dream holiday had become…

 

“Commercialization of Mother’s Day is growing every year…Since the movement has spread to all parts of the world, many things have tried to attach themselves because of its success.”

“The white carnation is the emblem of Mother’s Day because it typifies the beauty, truth and fidelity of mother-love. This emblem is used on the Mother’s Day association printed matter and official buttons.
“But it does not mean that people should wear a white carnation. This false idea has led to florist flagrantly boosting the price of white carnations for the Mother’s Day trade.”

“The red carnation has no connection with Mother’s Day. Yet florists have spread the idea that it should be worn for mother who has passed away. This has boosted the sale of red carnations.”

“Confectioners put a white ribbon on a box of candy and advance the price just because it’s Mother’s Day,” she charges. “There is no connection between candy and this day. It is pure commercialization.”

“The sending of a wire is not sufficient. Write a letter to your mother. No person is too busy to do this. Any mother would rather have a line of the worst scribble from her son or daughter than any fancy greeting card or telegram.”

“This is the wrong spirit,” declares Miss Jarvis.

“Mother’s Day is a day of sentiment —not sentimentality”

 

Many thanks to Huffington Post for a great original story on this.

 

Like Christmas, Easter, or any other holiday where the heart of the matter is supposed to be love, just remember the heart.

And don’t get caught up in the commerce.

Anna Jarvis, more than I realized until now, had it right.

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Eric Folkerth is a minister, musician, author and blogger. He has been Senior Pastor of Northaven United Methodist Church in Dallas, Texas since 2001. During his tenure, church membership has grown almost 30 percent, and a completely new church facility (sanctuary and education building) has been constructed. Northaven is a leading progressive Christian congregation in the Southwest. Northaven is an eclectic collection of gay and straight families, artists, musicians, theater folks, academic theologians, lawyers and judges (go figure), socially conscious community activists, people who don't "check their brain at the door," and a wide array of others who either see it as their "last chance" inside the "institutional church," or their first trip back in decades. Eric is an avid blogger and published author.  Eric is also an award-winning singer-songwriter, who performs throughout Texas and the Southwest. He's an engaging live performer whose first CD was released in 2000. His songs have won honorable mention in both the Billboard and Great American song contests; and he's been a finalist in the 5th Street Festival and South Florida Folk Festival songwriter competitions. Eric is also a leader of Connections, a unique band comprised of United Methodist clergy and layfolk from throughout North Texas. Connections performs "cover shows" of artists like Dan Fogelberg, Chicago, Eagles, Doobie Brothers, Billy Joel, Stevie Wonder, James Taylor and others. Their shows draw crowds of between 300 and 1,000 fans, and they have raised more than $240,000 dollars for worthy charities. Eric has led or co-led hundreds of persons on mission trips around the globe, to places such as Mexico, Haiti, Russia, and Nepal. He has worked with lay persons to build ten homes, and one Community Center, in partnership with Habitat for Humanity of Dallas. He's a popular preacher, and often tackles challenging issues of social justice in his writings and sermons. His wife, Judge Dennise Garcia, is a State District Judge for Dallas, County. As judge of the 303rd Family District Court, she consistently gets high ratings from area lawyers, and was named "best judge" by The Dallas Observer. First elected in 2004, she was the first Latina ever elected to a county-wide bench in Dallas County. She was re-elected for a third term in 2010. They have the world's best daughter, Maria, and an incredible dog, Daisy. (As always, if you like this post, then "like" this on Facebook by clicking the box below, so others can see too...)

2 thoughts on “Anna Jarvis Had It Right

  1. Mother’s Day became the single biggest sale day for flowers. When Anna Jarvis was penniless and in a nursing home, her bills were paid by the Florists Association. She didn’t know this.:)

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